You might think of the holiday season as a time for cheer, but did you know it’s also a big time for breakups? Make an effort to keep the pressure of the season from straining your relationship. That may mean making light of family drama instead of letting old arguments resurface. If you can get through your crazy families, it should be smooth sailing. The next breakup surge is spring break, so mark your calendars!

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