One day my mother says that I am a harsh person, that I am not flexible and that I don’t allow anyone to be close to me. Another day, she says I am the opposite, that I am an enabler and I am allowing everyone to walk over me.
I hate when she does it, why is she contradicting herself?
Why can’t she just say that I am fine as I am?, why can’t she just accept me as I am really are or say that the best solution is to follow my instincts when it is about interpersonal relationships and don’t pay attention to what she says because she is not the one who is living my life?
What should I do?, should I just ignore her comments or speak to her about it?