ModeratorErika replied 9 months ago:
Your dream a just your subconscious telling you that you are not yet fully recovered from your relationship with you ex and that is normal. When you are with someone for sometime your energies start to unite and not being with that person can cause a lot of emotional and/or physical pain. If the breakup was nasty then I suggest moving on, but if not you may consider meeting with him and making the split easier by forgiving each other,becoming friends, or getting some much needed closure . Becoming friends can be tricky - you have to be sure that you are completely over the relationship and set certain boundaries. I am friends with my ex bf and we are now both with different people and it works well for us. We keep our conversation short and sweet...we need friends you never know when you'll be stranded someone and he is the only one available to save you.