I be having this real life dream about my ex

by teresa brown

9 months ago

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I really want to say since i has broken up with my ex i kept having this dream about him trying to come back into my life, I was wonder is this dream is real or it telling me something...... I love him so much but I am also moving on without him but I cannot stop having this dream about him. Please help me understand what really going on around my life.

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  ModeratorErika replied 9 months ago:

  Your dream a just your subconscious telling you that you are not yet fully recovered from your relationship with you ex and that is normal. When you are with someone for sometime your energies start to unite and not being with that person can cause a lot of emotional and/or physical pain. If the breakup was nasty then I suggest moving on, but if not you may consider meeting with him and making the split easier by forgiving each other,becoming friends, or getting some much needed closure . Becoming friends can be tricky - you have to be sure that you are completely over the relationship and set certain boundaries. I am friends with my ex bf and we are now both with different people and it works well for us. We keep our conversation short and sweet...we need friends you never know when you'll be stranded someone and he is the only one available to save you.

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  ModeratorErika replied 9 months ago:

  Your dream a just your subconscious telling you that you are not yet fully recovered from your relationship with you ex and that is normal. When you are with someone for sometime your energies start to unite and not being with that person can cause a lot of emotional and/or physical pain. If the breakup was nasty then I suggest moving on, but if not you may consider meeting with him and making the split easier by forgiving each other,becoming friends, or getting some much needed closure . Becoming friends can be tricky - you have to be sure that you are completely over the relationship and set certain boundaries. I am friends with my ex bf and we are now both with different people and it works well for us. We keep our conversation short and sweet...we need friends you never know when you'll be stranded someone and he is the only one available to save you.

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  jjb207 replied 8 months ago:

  Do  not let these dreams  control your thinking.  They are just dreams and they will STOP.  Go on with your life.

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  MumKat replied 7 months ago:

  Your dream means that you are moving on but haven't gotten over him completely yet, you left him for a reason even though you still love him, remember why you guys broke up. I have a "Do not take him back" rule for myself, if I break up with a man than it has to be for a good reason, something that we can't control or talk through, so if you are having these dreams about your ex than you simply haven't really gotten over the good things...that is normal, we think about the good things and tend to shrug the bad. Just keep living your life and forget about him coming back. Is your life better? If you are happy and your life is better  than keep going.  :)

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