Should I still be friends with the people that I used to be friends with after 2-3 years has passed?

by Dashi

10 months ago

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i used to be friends with this boy that I met in high school and we always hanged out. But at my final year, we didn't hang out as much and didn't talk as much either. And when we graduated high school, we never saw or spoke to each other. I thought we were close and when he never spoke to me, I thought our friendship was over. Then 2 years later, we saw each other again and he wants to my friend again, but I'm not sure if I should allow him to come back into my life again. I have trust issues and I think that if I let him come back into my life and then the same thing happens again, I just don't want to go through that again and I will just lose all my trust in people.

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  justjessigun replied 9 months ago:

  I say, THE HELL TO HIM. No offense but, the same thing happened to me. I had an amazing friendship with my ex guy best friend but after some time of not keeping close contact, he completely forgot about me -- MIND YOU, I have my share of trust issues in the sense that it takes a pretty good long time for me to consider a person a close friend in which I can trust and feel comfortable with. I'm not going to lie, I kept telling myself that maybe it was because we both had a lot to do in our personal lives that maybe we couldn't have hung out or talked to eachother as much but, that wasn't it at all. I would message him on facebook plenty of times, asking when we could hang out and once he agreed to see me, he'd ditch me the last minute.

  The point is, REAL friend will stick by you no matter what. And REAL friends do exist because my boyfriend has had a 9 year long friendship with his bestfriend. If it takes 2-3 years for a friend, who stops making an contact with you, to realize that they missed the good ol' times, it just isn't worth the effort :/

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