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by 1mt1mt

over 2 years ago

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I am 19 years old - and I have never had a boyfriend. I know that having boyfriend isn't everything - but a lot of my friends around me have a guy and I have never had that. Everyone always tells me to just wait and when you least expect it love will find you. But there has to be something wrong with me right? haha I mean what am I doing wrong? Any advice on dating tips or talking with guys? Thanks (:
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    fromfornia replied over 2 years ago:
    Maybe you should just work on all the other aspects of you life, and whatever is missing will just fall into place.
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    sbmoore replied over 2 years ago:
    just be yourself. dont be or act like something or some one ur not. be honest i think that is so important when getting to know some one,then theres no unsuspected surprises! and sometimes love does happen when you least expect it. you are young, so dont rush into anything,get to know each other first. i doubt you are doing anything wrong,just be more confident,believe in yourself. trust me it will happen!
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    aapy replied over 2 years ago:
    there is nothing wrong with u, just because ppl around u hav boyfriends doesn really mean u need to have one too! give it more tym.. dont jump into conclusions! cheers ! :)
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    selene replied over 2 years ago:
    haha i have the same problem but i figured something out about it even when ur friends say you need to get a boy friend i think of this i hope it helps i realized that girls like us are just more cofidente in our selfs we dont need any onr to be happy sure it gets lonely but it all right cause at least we arnt co dependent so just let it be it will work out lots of guys like caonfedent girls u just have to find them dont worry about the losers that go for the hole damsile in destres thing its over rated just be confident in your self
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    8185 replied over 2 years ago:
    justrelaxwhateverhappeninlivejustbereadycausethefristoneisthatyounobecauseyounothisonlyonebelivethatyoudon:tneedaboyfriendhavebecauseyouneedaman
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    8185 replied over 2 years ago:
    justliveccostittoohardtring2takecareofsomeoneelse
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    ShortieLexi replied over 2 years ago:
    Start finding things tht you like to do and get into a group with it. You could always find a guy that loves to do the same things as you. & maybe even go out with all your single friends on a Friday or Saturday night? Have fun and talk to new people when you go out with your girls.
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    strawberryblue replied about 2 years ago:
    So do you want a boyfriend? It's really not a big deal either way, but if you want one just talk to guys more. That's basically it. Just be friendly. As a female you have the easy part of the equation since we generally don't have to work very hard to get their attention. Just be casual about it. Because like I said, it's no big deal.
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    Kayla101 replied about 2 years ago:
    Im 12 and I have had more then 20 boyfriends and today I got my first kiss from one of them........of u want a boyfriend u will have to work on it If u have a crush u should let him know he likes u bye acting a little luvstruck around him tell all ur friends that u like him and one of them will tell him and he will realize all this time u have been trying to get his attention and he will think that is really sweet and if he doesn't ask u out bye then......u should take control and let him know how u feel about him I'm sure ur a strong independent women
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    Kayla101 replied about 2 years ago:
    Im 12 and I have had more then 20 boyfriends and today I got my first kiss from one of them........of u want a boyfriend u will have to work on it If u have a crush u should let him know he likes u bye acting a little luvstruck around him tell all ur friends that u like him and one of them will tell him and he will realize all this time u have been trying to get his attention and he will think that is really sweet and if he doesn't ask u out bye then......u should take control and let him know how u feel about him I'm sure ur a strong independent women
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    shelly3212 replied about 2 years ago:
    i agree....(: my boyfriend is very sweet in every possible way!! i love him very much
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    sassyliz replied almost 2 years ago:
    do u by any chance live in ontario just wondering lol
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    aquamarine1960 replied almost 2 years ago:
    I'm thinking about getting myself a puppy!...true unconditional love!
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    katelynanne replied almost 2 years ago:

    get get out there , being outgoing & flirty might help Smile

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    Idara replied almost 2 years ago:
    Im jst likeu i think i myt have a problem like maybe ders a warnin sign on my head dat i cant see.nd it really hurts no matter how much i try to play tough girl.bt i need to accept dat God tym is best. So try nd relax ok
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