tinatwinA
replied about 1 year ago:
trying to figure that out~my problem is that it wasn't my choice and even though at the end the way he treated me was wrong, (I still cry for him everyday)...because he refused to tell me why he was leaving and didn't sit down with me to tell my kids who are very attached. And I really feel like an idiot, but all I ever wanted to do was treat him like he wasn't treated before. I did that but then he ended up treating me the same way he was. I thought If I treated him withthe respect he never got and if I didn't lie or cheat, that maybe he would be able to let go of the pain. I don't think there is only one way for everyone. Be true to your feelings, if you want to cry about it , then cry. I pace back and forth in my apartment and pretend that I am talking to him and saying everything he didn't give me the chance to say. The only sure thing is...it won't be quick or easy!
