EMERGENCY!!

by violetrod

12 months ago

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My husband of 17 yrs brought over a friend he recently met. I need a ton of things fixed around the house and this guy is a carpenter. As soon as he walked in the door and saw his faced I was transfixed. Beautiful features, long straight black hair, blue eyes, in great shape. To get to the point he and my husband went to the local restaurant/bar for lunch. I got bored and went for a swim then decided to call them. My husband said come on over and have a drink. After a while my husband left to do something at the house...he can't sit still and I was left with Mr. ToDieFor. We talked for a long time..he's the total opposite of my husband..he's low key, relaxed. After my downing 2 tequila shots while drinking my regular vodka and tonics (he was drinking beer) of course my inhibitions started to give way. We decided to go back to my house and I was driving...in the parking lot instead of heading straight out to the exit I pulled into a parking space and stopped the car. I looked at him straight in those gorgeous baby blues and said "Kiss me". I was blown away when he said he couldn't because my husband was a friend and he didn't do things like that. He sounded very honorable but I was thinking REJECTION and B.S.!!!! (My husband is also a gun-nut and runs around with a .38 in his waistband and takes his AK-47 when he goes to see friends to show off). Maybe the guy is afraid he'd get his head blown off....but all I can think of is that I was rejected and even though I am 62 and this guy is 48 I have never had a guy turn me down.The guy is supposed to come over this weekend to work but now I don't know if he will. I am like a ga-ga teenager. Should I just forget him? Should I just act like nothing happened. I could tell he felt a connection with me and honestly I have had men chase me all my life so I guess I'm spoiled....I usually get what I want. Not as hot as I used to be but I look about 40 and feel like I'm 20. I need emergency help!!!!!

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  saiyuri replied 12 months ago:

  Don't go there! You married your husband- NOT this newbie; besides, he respected your husband in telling you 'no' when you told him to kiss you. That, is huge. So, follow his lead, act like nothing happened- and move.on. Guys will come and go.. but not husbands- no matter what the media says. Wish you luck!  

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  lover4455 replied 12 months ago:

  I agree with saiyuri!

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  violetrod replied 11 months ago:

  Thanks for the words of wisdom and support. Saiyuri, I know that everything you said is absolutely true...intellectually, yes....but I guess I have been so darn bored with my husband for such a long time and haven't had sex in sooooooooo long that I can't remember that far back. Our sex life came to a sudden stop when hubby decided to leave me back in 2004 for this ugly dyke. Nothing against lesbians but my God at least he could have picked somebody good looking. He lied right to my face and all his friends knew and covered his butt when I would call their houses looking for missing husband. I'm not a jealous or possessive type but his behavior had been so out of character that I knew something was up. One night he went to play pool with the "guys" which he hardly ever did so I called him around 12:30 and asked if he was coming home. In retrospect it was funny cause after we said goodbye he forgot to turn off the cell phone and I heard every word uttered by him and this "woman".So love dovey I was gagging. Finally had the proof I needed. When he got home he was cool as a cucumber and so was I. No problem I thought. I'm going to make him wish he never met me. The following day he went for major surgery on his teeth. When he was stuffed with all kinds of stuff in his mouth and couldn't talk I advised the dentist that he was allergic to novocaine and other pain killers so he assured me he would just give him a topical treatment for the gums. I was laughing so hard while sitting in the waiiting room and hearing him scream bloody murder. He had all his top front teeth pulled with virtually no anesthesia. And why would the dentist doubt me....all I wanted was to take care of my "loving hubby". Well, after that the jerk left me and all our animals without a penny. He was gone for 8 months then started to call and like the miserable slug that he is he was so sorry and he didn't know what he was thinking. Like a damn fool I took him back but I have not allowed him to touch me in any way since then. I have not forgiven him and I'll never forget. So now we are like roommates. He goes to work and I lounge around the pool and play with my animals and cruise the beach in my Jaguar and do lots of online shopping for which he pays.He does all the grocery shopping, runs errands, cooks and serves me in bed like a queen. Long time without trusting warmth and love can make a woman like me crazy. I have been feeling it all these years and when I met this other guy I just couldn't help but fall in lust with him. We had plans for him to help me do a lot of stuff around my house and when he called last nite to see if he could come over today to work I just calmly told him I had other plans...he said, maybe next weekend? And I retorted (a la Meatloaf) "let me sleep on it" and hung up. The fantasy is over but it was a thrill feeling the rush of lust again and it was fun while it lasted. I know I can't be around him at all so I've cut the cord and I'm back in control of my emotions. Again, thanks for reading the latest chapter in my continuing saga and quest for a decent satisfying relationship with a man who is worthy of me. Like they say, Rejection is God's Protection. Good night to both of you and thanks again. It meant a lot to me that someone took the time to write. My best to you both. Violetrod

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