blue lotus replied about 1 year ago:
i think she's not used to being around someone so much so it bothers her to have so much to do and is stressed out. just give her as much space as she needs. be more active without her. and try not to text her as much as you'd regularly do. i have this problem with my boyfriend. i'm not big on texting or calling. i'm a very antisocial person. and so when i suddenly have a boyfriend they tend to stress me out. they text everything every day ... and i'm not used to it. so i try to put my needs aside and focus on theirs. but unfortunately it hurt me because of the stress i was under. i have a family to take care of chores to do. and i have people who need me more than a text of "what's up?" needs me. so being pulled two or five ways is very stressfull. and so i ended up exploding on him. and telling him to stop texting me so much that i have things to do. and that i'm very stressed. i'm not sure how he took it. but hopefully we can break this habit of stressful technology's influence over our daily lives. love and luck
