Cyaira replied 12 months ago:
The best advice that I can give you is to tell him how you feel.
There's no point worrying about whether he likes you or not because you'll never know unless you ask. I know first hand that it's really nerve-wracking and you'll be scared out of your witts, but I believe it would be better to know than to just wonder and then regret asking when it's too late.
You'll have to find your courage.
But, there's also plenty of ways to somewhat confirm whether he likes you or not before you tell him how you feel; just to reduce the nervousness and feel more assured.
Just think about how he acts around you; obvious things like blushing, fidgeting, laughing a lot, constantly smiling, maybe even that cute little crinkle at the corners of his eyes when he REALLY smiles; those are good signs that he likes you. Also, if his pupils are dialated. When a person is attracted to someone, that's a sign they can't hide. And, notice how his feet are when you're talking; if they're pointing towards you, then it's also a sign; it means he has all his attention focused on you. Also; if he's talking to his friends about you, or pointing to you when he's with them with a sweet smile on his face, almost as though he's saying, "Yeah, that's the girl I've been telling you about." If he's showing affections, that's another obvious sign. If he always wants to be close to you; always wants to sit next to you, always giving you hugs, if you're in a group, he's always standing next to you or right across from you; little things like that can show that he likes you or is at least interested in you.
If a guy can freely joke around with you, he feels comfortable with you. ^^ Have a little confidence! Even if worst comes to worst and he doesn't feel the same, you'll still have your friendship to fall back on. ^^ Just go with the flow and find your courage and confidence, and find out first hand how he feels!
