Jealousy & Insecurities in RELATIONSHIPS !

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by misskdollie

11 months ago

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The past relationships i've been in they have lied to me, cheated on me and because of it, its knocked me down.

Currently i'm seeing someone, we're not in a relationship yet but we really like each other. He had a gf when i first liked him, but he broke up w/ her weeks ago. He's shared his sexual history w/ me and he still has feelings for an ex-ex girlfriend. I've become really discouraged and jealous and insecure that he will do something to hurt me.... How do i approach the situation with him? ...Btw, i'm 16

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jpstopa replied 11 months ago:

At the risk of sounding harsh, you are the common denominator in all of your relationships. Try being introspective to see how you attract these types of men into your life. I am a true believer that the people we choose to date (emphasis on choose) are a direct reflection of how we feel about ourselves. It sounds like you have chosen some unworthy men to bring into your life, this new one being no expection. You deserve to have someone that is invested solely in you and not an ex-girlfriend. Coming from an outsider's perspective, it seems like a no-brainer to move on and focus your attention on someone more worthy of you.

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misskdollie replied 11 months ago:

jpstopa, thanks!

I will most def will be thinking about what you've said :)

God Bless..

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Vicky1984 replied 11 months ago:

Don't worry or obsess about him, leave him be and go on with your life. You are young. A great guy would not be talking about his ex a lot or any other woman, he would be asking you... how you are and trying to get to know you. Seems to me you are just his sounding board and he knows you like him, so he will keep on using you for his own benefit. You don't need a guy like that. He will just drain you and leave you or keep using you until you finally wise up and go. Don't waste your time, he's a loser.

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Vicky1984 replied 11 months ago:

By the way, if he truly loved you or liked you a lot, he wouldn't be acting that way and talking about his ex all the time. Be glad you didn't date him, because if you did, he might trash you too or all the time talk about his ex or cheat on you with her, if she decided to take him back and be his mistress or more. You deserve better and you are only 16. Act 16 and make school and your future your priority. Not some guy that might come and go.

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misskdollie replied 11 months ago:

thanks so much Vicky1984!

:)

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hopefultxn replied 9 months ago:

honey u r kids still u break up more times than can be counted just get through school u got plenty of time for boys

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