kajpt replied 9 months ago:
No one likes the idea of being compared to another especially men. I know they are physically stronger but emotionally they're babes. Your ex was the full works but my friend he is history. I do believe spontaneity and everything else in between is absolutely necessary but I believe you have to leave the past where it belongs. Maybe your guy feels so inadequate that he doesn't even want to consider you becoming a life long partner.Take the time apart to think seriously about what you want out of life.