Love or Fake Love

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by WynterFawn

about 1 year ago

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okay so me and this girl have been "together" for almost a year now.she says she loves me with all her heart but im not sure about that because of 1:the age differnce( shes 18 and im 15) 2: we are long distance. and i dont noe what she could be doing while im here.ummm i met a girl here and i kinda like her but im not the type that 2time or cheat on some1 but i dont know if she has the same amount of loyalty that i do What should i do

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WillowTree27 replied about 1 year ago:

hello i know i dont know you but i was in a situation similar to yours, and i went with what my heart said to who you fill the most comfortable with, who you have more in common, who will be there for you,emotionally, physicaly, and who you fill that is true hearted and will give you the same compasion and loyalty as you are, i hope you get the best of whatevery women desreves and wants,

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DaiDai33 replied about 1 year ago:

age isnt nothen but a number but build up a trust with her and tell her how u feel and ask her questions like what u doing she may be like why is she asking me this maybe if she see that u care for her alot she would get it together if u feel like she dont have the same amount of care or loyalty just test her alil bit and see what she do

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nevershoutwonka replied about 1 year ago:

If she really matters all it takes is for you to talk to her. Once you talk to your partner you will get the insight of how she feels. You wont be unsure about her anymore, after you talk to her and you still feel unsure then thats when you take action, you dont want to be in a relationship if you are going to be insecure and doubting yourself if the person loves you or not.

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iwantcandy replied about 1 year ago:

Either trust her or leave her but at the end of the day just because u trust someone doesnt mean they wont cheat.. it just means it keeps u happy bcz u think u have a loyal partner and if the worst does happen it'll hurt twice as bad because it'll be such a shock..... so all you can do is trust them but at least be smart about it and emotionally prepare yourself for the worst

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amjimenez replied about 1 year ago:

All I can say is follow your heart and be honest with her about how you are feeling and talk ot out. I agree with WillowTree27. And for rem926ldm: I think WynterFawn is asking for advice, not to be judged by some close minded person.

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tr58914 replied 12 months ago:

If you have been "together" for a year now, you should feel comfortable enough to talk about what is on your mind and in your heart. Be honest and upfront with her, let her know that you are unsure of the trust and loyalty....give yourself time to grow, you are only 15. This girl that you are "together" with may not be the one you are suppose to be with. Let your heart guide you, don't give up on talking to other girls and making new friends if your girl trusts you she will understand and you should be able to trust her to make new friends with other guys, if you are unable to trust that.......then let it go because it isn't going to work out well for either of you. Remember, you are only 15, you have so much more growing to do and your thoughts and feelings on women are going to change as you mature. Wish the best for you,

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