NeverAFailure replied over 2 years ago:
Many men usually tend to look at women for what they look, from butt, hips, and beyond. The others who look at the inside. That is pretty rare. Having alot of weight can lose quite a bit of men, thanks to men only choosing for looks. If I were you, I wouldn't lose the weight unless you're desperate for love. Meet more new men, men that would look at you on the inside. That's what matters. Even though it's difficult for people to accept for the inside. I'm certain that one chance will come. Just have faith. That's all. Words from the 16 year old.