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Men seein women from inside out

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over 3 years ago

I am 52 years old and am presently over weight. My question, is their a man out there that would see that I am a lovely lady with great values and have all the qualities that make a wonderful mate? I just need to know if weight will cause me to be alone, the one thing I can lose with exercise. But my personality and other good qualities I will never loose
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    over 3 years ago
    Many men usually tend to look at women for what they look, from butt, hips, and beyond. The others who look at the inside. That is pretty rare. Having alot of weight can lose quite a bit of men, thanks to men only choosing for looks. If I were you, I wouldn't lose the weight unless you're desperate for love. Meet more new men, men that would look at you on the inside. That's what matters. Even though it's difficult for people to accept for the inside. I'm certain that one chance will come. Just have faith. That's all. Words from the 16 year old.
  • User_8
    over 3 years ago
    You are absolutely right when you say that you'll never lose your personality and other good qualities. If you show a man that you feel confident in who you are and what you have to offer him as a partner, that speaks volumes--and is much more enduring than a trim figure. No one ever finds true love in centerfold measurements; they find it in the lovely lady with great values and all the qualities of a wonderful mate.
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    over 3 years ago
    there are men out there who will accept you for you..us keep being you and im sure he will come alone.. but be careful cause he could already be there you just dont know it because love is in all places...
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    over 3 years ago
    If you are overweight, you might have emotional issues you need to take care of before a man could think you look good "on the inside." Why don't you watch your calories, overweight woman?
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    about 3 years ago
    Yes, there are men who will love you for who you are regardless of your physical looks. But it sounds as if you are self-conscious about your weight anyway, that you think you could stand to lose a bit. So if it makes you that uneasy with yourself, why not go ahead and do the exercise and lose it, at least until you're more comfortable with yourself? You'll feel a lot better about yourself both physically and emotionally, your self-esteem will be better, and then you won't have to stress about it.
  • User_269729
    about 3 years ago
    I think you know the answer to your question because if you didn't you wouldn't bother posting this here. Of course there are men out there who will love you for your personality, but no one chooses a mate on personality alone. However, there are men who find large and middle aged women to be very attractive. These men may not be as prevalent or plentiful as the men who seek slender, young women with a 7/10 waist/hip ratio, but have a little faith in others and they'll have faith in you.
  • User_166687
    about 3 years ago
    I believe there are people that see past looks. If the weight doesn't bother you then go out and be confident, mingle and mostly have fun.
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    almost 3 years ago
    for most men, they dont go after looks now in these days they look for a strong hearts and a stable women who respects herself.
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