sunshine3257 replied over 1 year ago:
Military girlfriend, my fiance is also in the army. He chose you and a career that will support your family. I know first hand that this situation is stressful. If he's telling you not to get fat, then try not to get fat. I know that sounds rude but please don't take it that way. Does he know about your other child? And your depression, OCD, and mental disorder has nothing to do with how you treat him at this point. You are his choice, not his mothers, or your fathers. Sorry. If you would like a friend to talk to you can contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org. Don't give up, after all he is fighting for our freedom, he's a hero!