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by jessandidusty

over 1 year ago

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my boyfriend is in the army. when we started dating he had already left for iraq. the story gets a little wierd because i was pregnant with my 2nd child when he left. he has not met my 2nd baby and although we are very in love i dont like that he is in the army and although he knows im against it hes made a decision to make the army his carreer and i know it was for the better... but the odds are stacked against us... 1. his mother doesnt like me and my father doesnt see us working 2. hes made a career move against my liking 3. hes taking me and my 2 kids that ARENT his 4. hes very picky about how the woman he dates looks he told me i better not get fat 5. i suffer from depression, OCD, and mental disorder. now although we have all of this i pray love is enough... does anyone have a situation that in ANY sense is like this or can give me advise to help me stay happy and keep my head held high i love him too much for this to fall apart
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    sunshine3257 replied over 1 year ago:
    Military girlfriend, my fiance is also in the army. He chose you and a career that will support your family. I know first hand that this situation is stressful. If he's telling you not to get fat, then try not to get fat. I know that sounds rude but please don't take it that way. Does he know about your other child? And your depression, OCD, and mental disorder has nothing to do with how you treat him at this point. You are his choice, not his mothers, or your fathers. Sorry. If you would like a friend to talk to you can contact me at destinyishere2001@yahoo.com. Don't give up, after all he is fighting for our freedom, he's a hero!
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    bettyliem replied over 1 year ago:
    He told you that you shouldn't get fat? Have you taken care of your emotional issues?
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