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by Keebler116

about 1 year ago

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I am 23 years old. Never in my life have I been in a relationship, I've never been kissed, I've never been on a date, I've never had sex, etc. I feel like I'm so behind on life and relationships and I fear that should someone actually care for me, I wouldn't know how to react to certain situations because I've never been in a relationship. Is that normal for a person to have never had those experiences? I feel like a loser......
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    Sassymonkeysox replied about 1 year ago:
    Yes, sweetie, it's normal. Youre not a loser! Not at all! Maybe you just haven't found that right person yet..which I think is better than having a ton of regrets. Are you shy? It's easy to feel unnoticed when you're a shy person (I am). Anyway, you are definitely not a loser. I'm sure you're a lovely person with a lot to offer.
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    MJ255 replied about 1 year ago:
    Hi. You are most definitely normal! I didn't have my first relationship until I was late in college, and am (now) very thankful for that. I know that it's hard to be patient, but know that it's possible, and completely normal to not have a romantic relationship until later. And also know that you are in no way a loser-if anything you should be respected.
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    iwantcandy replied about 1 year ago:
    In a way ur lucky.. your 23 so ur smarter and more mature than a 15 or 16 year old (hopefully!) Lol Trust me some people who have relationships early on arent emotionally ready and end up having children, making their lives more difficult breaking up being single parents etc getting into un healthy relationships beacause theyr too immature to realize how destructive they are.. So in a way ur lucky on the other hand you should make an effort to meet people bcz personally for me I think ul never be able to truly appreciate ur partner or realize who ur soulmate is if you u havent had other relationships to compare it to... but every one has their own way their own path ur not a loser at all... Id rather be a 23 year old virgin than a 23 year old slapper with herpes or something Lol
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    Johanna69 replied 11 months ago:

    no you arent a loser but you should get out into the world and start expeirencing

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    bettyliem replied 10 months ago:

    Join a club.

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