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shye mugga

over 3 years ago

I have been n a relationship for 10 years and I'm having a hard time coping with the fact that its on the verge of ending.we have a child together nd I've been wit him since I was 14 I luv him a lot but I think we've out grown eachother . How can I get thru this humbly.
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    over 3 years ago
    every couple has these problems ovisly you to love each other to hold out the relationship this long you both need to go out just you and him and find that love that brought you to together n plus now you have a child involved you should think about how your child would feel if you to broke all because you to were having a problem at the moment and you two were to lazy to work it out.
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    over 3 years ago
    i come from a "broken" family and i was upset with my mom because she knew that the best thing for her and me and my sister was to seperate from my father and she delayed because she "was afraid it would hurt us kids if they seperated". my parents were together for twenty years and had stopped taking care of each others needs physically mentally and emotionly so they seperated and my father moved out. within five months the were close friends again but in the end they decided they couldn't be together anymore for a multitude of reasons. talk to your partner on neutral ground like at a restraunt and find out what each other is thinking. be aware that your child will be affected but he/she will still love you as long as you did what was right for you and your partner. you will need a base of support who won't judge you for ranting about the bad things that happened and then cryin because you miss the good times.
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    over 3 years ago
    You say that you believe you have out grown each other. Perhaps this is not a bad thing. We are the same age and from 14 till now I am not the same person, nor do I want to be. I think that you are stronger than you realize. If this relationship does end it will not be over for you. Maybe for the first time you can focus on what you want out of life, and you will be able to find yourself. Don't give up on love, but don't turn away from the idea of change. Change is the only thing that helps us to grow as individuals.
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    over 3 years ago
    Maybe you should work on yourself and other aspects of your life.
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    about 3 years ago
    I think you should self evaluate and see in what aspects you have grown out of each other. Realize that both of you have changed over the years, and you arent the same people you used to be. I have been with the same man since I was 13, and with college and jobs it has been hard staying together. But we are best friends and are lucky enough to grow together, rather than apart.
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