Recently divorced, How long are you suppose to wait before considering dating?

by Libra16

11 months ago

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My ex husband only married me cause I was pregnant and now that I had the baby. He abonded us and divorce me. I have only been divorce a week now and I don't know if  I worth finding love or being in love.  I'm stuck between a wall and a hard rock, because I wasn't in love with him. I did it so that my son will have a family now I wanna know when is it a right time to conside dating again. I told myself that I don't want to rush  nothing with any one else and that I was going give myself the rest of this year to get myself together. What do you think I should do?

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  Balex replied 11 months ago:

  It's hard to say, but I would focus on building up your new life and family (you and your son). If you meet someone that you like and they ask you out or you start hanging out with them go for it. I would say a couple of months (6-9) months should be the perfect amount of time. I have never been married or divorced, but htis is what I think.

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  ModeratorErika replied 8 months ago:

  There is no such thing as the right time per say. Whenever you feel like you are comfortable with yourself - you could then reenter the dating scene. What I would offer is to make sure that things between you and your ex-husband are palatable before you introduce someone into you and your son's life. I find that it is very important to know what exactly what you want out of a relationship. If you go out there with that in mind you will possibly attract the man that you were intended to be with. Remember we tend to attract things that we think about the most. If you are good with a week then so be it...but if it take 1,2,5, 10 years to be totally okay YOU that so be it. I hope this helps and good luck!!!

  ~Erika

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