Shyness

by Solyne

11 months ago

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As a child, I wasn't shy at all but since I left primary school, I changed a lot and now I became very shy. I only have few close friends and I don't really talk to other people. It has never been a problem for friendships because the less friends you have, the less problems you have. But when it comes to boys, it's really complicated.. As I leave high school at the end of the year to go to university, I want to change everything and to become what I've always wanted to be ( Someone who's not shy ). And maybe fall in love with someone, like everyone. Does anyone know how I can stop being that shy?

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  bnm11 replied 11 months ago:

  I used to be really shy and honestly have never been in a relationship. I say start out slow. You can't entirely change who you are overnight. If you have a way to meet people before school starts, start chatting online or something. Find a club that interests you. I do not have a ton of guy friends, but the ones I have met, I've met through my girl friends. My best advice is to just be yourself. Talk about anything. I only met one of my guy friends this past year, and I was really shy around him at first. We started to hang out in groups and got to know each other better through friends. It took time for me to get over my shyness, but if you have a friend to support you and as long as you are always honest, you will get over your shyness. Just stay true to yourself and gradually you will become less shy. I hope this helps!

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  Solyne replied 8 months ago:

  Thanks for you advices, it really helps. It's good to know that I'm not the only one. I guess if you did it I can do it too :)

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