I normally do not post anything like this before. Social media a good thing for a relationship?
I have been engaged to this great guy last Jan 2011. Even we have been together for more than 5 years. As I thought that we had a very clean and healthy relationship with happiness. Before I got engaged, we discussed about social medias such as facebook , twitter, etc .. we agreed not to go for social medias that may affect our long distance relationship. About a year later after engaged, i discovered through a friend telling me that he has a facebook. In my mind, i was so broken and confused based on our discussion. I looked at his page with 35 people as men and women. What bothers me the most that he added these women who wears very sexy lingerie outfit on his wall. I texted him to find out if its true that hes member of facebook. he said oh yes .( cool it off as if it was not a big deal) do you have a facebook,honey. I love you madly. I was very upset becz i was being so faithful and dedicated to him all these years in loving and supporting him so much. I told them why are these sexy women on ur facebook ? He said i m sorry i forgot to tell you and these women are from my work and college. I do not need women for facebook. U do not trust me. A few minutes later, he got into an accident while texting me. I had no clue about it. I am not jealous about any women or else. But, why is social medias ok for men especially in a long term relationships. After a few days later, he said i love you madly and all these love words. I do not know if he learned a lesson from this? Is it ok for your boyfriend or husband to have social medias without telling you while having women who dressed so super sexy? Sorry it is long... but your opinion? I love him SO MUCH! We plan to get marry soon. (sigh)
