TBandRB replied over 1 year ago:
Perhaps you should look at this mans past. You say that his relationships seemed short and unusual, why is that? He may have been hurt in the past and is afraid of getting hurt again so he quickly backed off seeing where the relationship was heading. And you have only known this man for several months and are already his best friend. Do you know his family and friends? They may know more about why he may be acting this way and be able to give you good advice. If all seems well I suggest taking to him and asking because what can it hurt?