Was it me ? naked photos ? other woman .....sideline ?

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by wade13

10 months ago

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hi guys ive been talking to this guy for about 2 to 4 months he's all ways on and off with his gf but when their off he allways comes to me am i a booty call ?? but anyways we talked alot and i really got close to him from the start i was shy about having sex but we never really had sex more so teasing like sexting pictures late night phones calls etc. now i have plenty pictures of his you know in my phone i never thought of sending myself naked until i told myself i wanna do this for him because i knew my virginty i wanted was something special and i wanted to give it to him and still do . one night he told me send him something sexy so i asked what does he like he told me naked i said no but made it a special and sent it anyways that day we talked for about a hour and now NOTHING I HAVENT SEEN /HEARD A THING FROM HIM ? the day i sent the pictures he told me your bodys amazing than nothing now all i hear about him and his gf going out the entire time never broke up with her just told me lies now he has my naked pictures what should i really do ??

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wolfysixx replied 10 months ago:

Dont waste anymore time on this jerk.

He was obviously using you to get pictures, when you said no to him, he didnt like it and ended it with no words.

Men like that dont like powerful women (by that, i mean by saying 'no').

You dont want to lose your virginity to a guy like that. Save it for an actual boyfriend when you feel super comfortable and right.

I had a similar experience with a guy, he did have sex (didnt take my virginity) and everytime he has an argument with his fiancé (they werent together when we did it) he texts me with pictures of himself and constantly asks for pictures of me and to meet up and stuff. As soon as i said no and i had a boyfriend he stopped. I havent heard from him at all since, which is fine. He was just using me as this guy is using you.

Forget about the pictures and forget about him!

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kajpt replied 9 months ago:

We all make mistakes and I know you have learnt from yours. He fooled you and you fell for his lies; that's life. I hope that he doesn't use your pics to embarass you in anyway. Be careful in the future and yes, your Mr right is out there who would love and respect you for and not abuse your trust by playing sick games. Best wishes

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ScEhXiYch replied 9 months ago:

Does his GF know?

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ModeratorB2121 replied 8 months ago:

Not to lecture or anything--see exactly why you can never be too careful with social media? It's self-explanatory..whatever you send via social media gets delivered to 'society.'...Really! So just be careful..He sounds like a self-centered bloke! Hopefully he is not the type to use those pics to blackmail you with threats to send them to your school, work, your future husband, church..so you will have sex and prevent this(no, I am not trying to scare you--These are the worse case scenarios, but you need to think of these things)..Now that the pics are in his possession, the ball's in his court.........He really could do anything. You sent them to him=consent.

That said however, In the meantime, don't obsess over this..'it is what it already is' ..Let's hope for the best, fingers and toes crossed, and Just learn form your mistakes ok? We all make them. Good luck-Take care.

Dr. J

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cuckholddon replied 8 months ago:

No big deal--just move on& live your life--Be happy!

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NullNull replied 6 months ago:

This happened to a girl in the news fairly recently.. she was very young and very attractive.

Unfortunately, the guy hounded her for several years using the photos of her against her. He publicly humiliated her to the point that she moved two different cities to try to get away from it. After several years and multiple moves, he found her again and started harassing her again.

She killed herself.

Everytime you see a camera, the entire world can, and just might, see what it sees. Never forget that.

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