Karebear1220 replied about 1 year ago:
First off it's only been 6 days so give yourself time to mourn the loss. Men and women mourn the relationship differently, don't compare yourself to his ability to move on faster than you. If he did the breaking up of the relationship - he had already started the "moving on" process before ending things, this is still very fresh for you. Having recently gone through a divorce I can say these are the things that finally got me to move on: 1. Get moving - exercise, exercise and exercise in what ever form - dance, gym or just getting out for a walk but get moving! 2. Friends/family - to ease the initial pangs of lonliness and to help with getting back out there enjoying things again. 3. Church - get some positive messages in your life, I attend Lakewood in Houston, it was a tremendous help to me. 4. Forgive yourself. 5. Volunteer your time in whatever brings joy to you. And most importantly focus on some "you" time - do things for yourself that make you happy! I had spent 15 years doing what someone wanted to make them happy - it's finally been my time to do things for me. And every day wake up saying "This too shall pass" it's simple but very true!!