What do you think about me giving my husband a one time, threesome for his birthday?

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by GrowingUp

10 months ago

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We've been married for ten years and we have great sex. He says he would like to experience his life's fantacy to be with two women, one of them is me. I get to choose the other woman and set the rules. Should I grant him this fantacy? What do you think?

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Juneism replied 9 months ago:

I think why not as long as you both set strict ground rules before u introduce the woman and you both have no jealousy issues that could create problems during and after the "event"" it could be a kinky way to make your marriage even stronger and fullfilling!

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GiaFox replied 9 months ago:

I think that this is outrageous. I dated someone who was into that and I have a hard time believing that anyone would require something like this out of their partner, that they love them. If he feels the need to exchange you with another woman, then he clearly doesn't love you.

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KristinaYoung replied 9 months ago:

Some people are just into that. I think it's great that he trusts you with this fantasy, and he is showing he loves you by letting you control everything. if he didn't love you this much, he would just go out and have a threesome without telling you about it, but he cares about you and wants you to know and be a part of it. I say set strict rules, and as long as you personally would be willing to do it, go for it.

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eve909 replied 9 months ago:

Umm there's no "strict rules" when it comes to threesomes.. I mean come on.. That's just stupid your just asking for trouble.. But that's just my personal feeling.. To each is own..

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babzzy replied 9 months ago:

Ohhhhh boy! I actually have a friend who was in the same situation. She is now divorced and struggling with two kids. A threesome is never a good idea. Do you actually know anyone that is in a commited relationship that has been successful at pulling this off? Yeah...me either.

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saina replied 9 months ago:

My boyfriend suggested it once and I said I have the same fantasy with two men and it was the end of the story :D

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latinprincess54 replied 9 months ago:

REALLY? ! Not a good idea. It might be the end of your marriage if you go through with it. What person you know that is still married and pulling threesomes? Thats just dumb. But, whatever floats your boat, its just my opinion

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GrowingUp replied 9 months ago:

I should mention that this is the second marriage for both me and my husband and our children are grown. Other women try and get his attention all the time. .I love my husband with all my heart and he loves me and I trust him. . If I go through with his fantacy then I get to have my fantacy, maybe new jewelry or my dream vacation or something. I don't want two men. The whole thing of the matter is that in my husbands fantacy he must be a gentlemen and make sure that I am happy and satisfied first. I trust that he will do just that.

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lklkkl replied 9 months ago:

i waould be careful he might not want to do it only once but if u r ok with the 3ome happening more often then once go for it girl

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breyelint replied 9 months ago:

you should not do it because is this man really loves u he wont share you with no one !!! and im telling u this because i told my bf the same thing about having a threesome and this was his answer.

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Honey456 replied 9 months ago:

Well hun you sound as if you just about made up your mind. Do what you will. My only question is if you have different morals and believe that you should be the only woman he is pleasing sexually don't compromise your dignity for the sake of making a man happy. Believe me it won't make him love you more. ~

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ModeratorB2121 replied 8 months ago:

Wow! Great advice from everyone...Babzzy and Honeycould not have said it better..All I will say is "Think....Long and hard".....This concerns me as well...You wrote..."in my husbands fantacy he must be a gentlemen and make sure that I am happy and satisfied first. I trust that he will do just that.." (I would be less concerned if you wrote.."I am sure he will do just that" but you trust he will do just that?...It sounds like (I Just hope he will do that)...Also, it is interesting..the very word 'fantasy' perhaps says it all..Could it be just a fantasy that this will happen and life as you know it will be the same?

Not judging or saying yes or no..Only you can answer that. Perhaps you need more time to think this through? No one else can make that decision or help you to make that decision. We can only give opinions and we have plenty..Good luck and just be content withwhatever decision you make. If you are not content..then don't feel rushed ...it simply means perhaps you are not so keen on the idea afterall, or you need some more time to think it through...THis could be what he wants now...What else will he be thinking? what next? be careful..His appetite could change..Will you be able to meet all demands ? Just (FFT) food for thought.

Be well-be safe-be careful and stay beautiful!

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Genissa replied 8 months ago:

That is degarding you if u dnt wanna do it i say no and if dnt wanna deal wit it he dnt love u for real

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GrowingUp replied 8 months ago:

Thanks to all of you, I have decided not to grant this fantacy and my husband is fine with it. It would be a fantasy for everything to workout okay.

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cuckholddon replied 8 months ago:

Well- your decision is made up(that's good) but I would suggest that you Don't completly close your mind for the future! Sometimes things can change quickly! the same old same old Can get monotonous & expanding boundries becomes nessarry to keep things exciting!

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Phun Guy replied 5 months ago:

I have been in quite a few 3sums, with my wife, and before that my girlfriends and even couples that have invited me over. I really enjoy a really HOT MFM 3sum with me and another guy either pleaseing his woman or both of us pleasing my woman. My wife loves the attetniton of 2 men. :-)

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