who's the bad guy here ?!

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by breyelint

7 months ago

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K so this is the deal! tell me why my COUSIN & the boy that i am talking to ARE ACTUALLY TALKING litterary behind my back ! we have been talking for about 2 months and my cousin knows pretty damn well whats going on and she stills be meeting up with him and talking to him. but i think is not 100% her fault because he talks to her too even though he is always remind her that he is talking to me and it just make me a lil bit mad because he talks to her more than he talks to me !!!!! & even thou i look better than her i dont trust her cuz i am a girl and iknow that when we like a boy WOMEN are capable of EVERYTHING

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ageloves replied 7 months ago:

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PrincessChan replied 7 months ago:

I think you shouldn't be feuding with your cousin.. Maybe talk with her and tell her how you feel. Things could turn around for all of you.

BUT....

If this guy has been seeing you for two months, and hasn't asked you to be his girlfriend, and he is still hanging out with other girls and spending more time with someone else ....

Then you shouldn't be wasting your time on him!! You should find someone who will treat you right and shows you he cares for you. Someone who will always want to be with you and thinks of you as not only a girlfriend, but his best friend. I suggest you get out and meet new people :)

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ModeratorErika replied 7 months ago:

My dearest Brey,

Always remember that family is forever. Yes your cousin should not be engaging with someone that you are interested in, but keep in mind neither of you are married to this young man or even in a committed relationship with him. So truthfully he is free to 'talk' to whomever he pleases.

Now think about this - would you want to be with a guy that in only 2 months is playing Jedi mind tricks??? I would venture to say that you DO NOT. Here is how you solve the problem. Talk you your cousin and let her know you are fully aware of what is going on. Tell her that you care about her and that you don't want someone outside the family to ruin your relationship. Also tell this guy that you're not interested in someone who will blatantly disrespect you and your cousin.

Sweetheart you need to realize that you are worth way more than that. No one in this world deserves to be made a fool. The only person that can put a stop to this is YOU. You need to make a decision and live with it. There are over 7 BILLION people in this world don't allow one person to cause to you 7 nanoseconds of stress.

Good luck lil lady and have a great weekend.

Erika

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breyelint replied 7 months ago:

“My dearest Brey,”
Always remember that family is forever. Yes your cousin should not be engaging with someone that you are interested in, but keep in mind neither of you are married to this young man or even in a committed relationship with him. So truthfully he is free to 'talk' to whomever he pleases.

Now think about this - would you want to be with a guy that in only 2 months is playing Jedi mind tricks??? I would venture to say that you DO NOT. Here is how you solve the problem. Talk you your cousin and let her know you are fully aware of what is going on. Tell her that you care about her and that you don't want someone outside the family to ruin your relationship. Also tell this guy that you're not interested in someone who will blatantly disrespect you and your cousin.

Sweetheart you need to realize that you are worth way more than that. No one in this world deserves to be made a fool. The only person that can put a stop to this is YOU. You need to make a decision and live with it. There are over 7 BILLION people in this world don't allow one person to cause to you 7 nanoseconds of stress.

Good luck lil lady and have a great weekend.

Erika

by: ModeratorErika

i did exactly what your told me to do and she said that they are just friends even thou she does likes him & he already asked me like 3 times when we are going to make it official but i feel like is too soon and he needs to start earning my trust. like u said to the other girl a relationship is not about complaining and everything is about having fun but i feel like i just need to start putting my DO'S & DONT'S out there ASAP

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ModeratorErika replied 7 months ago:

Free will is a liberty give to us all. You know the best decision as it pertains to your life. Good luck and I hope everything works out.

Erika

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