lover4455 replied about 1 year ago:
No matter what happens, you have to always tell your kids everything. If they are old enough to understand, tell them 1 on 1. Not as a group.
Though you need him, please leave him. Ever heard the song "Lie To Me" By Ne-yo? That is exactly what kind of situation you are in. Type it into a search box and listen to it.
You should be getting support from your family. Talk to an older sibling or a parent and tell them anything.