applepiealamode replied 11 months ago:
I would imagine that it varies from person to person, but don't feel bad if your just not in the mood ! What does help is to make the area you have sex, actually sexy ! When you have diapers, stuffed animals/dolls, the scent of baby around it can put a damper on things !
Try to put your babies on some type of schedule, if they aren't already ! Toddlers yelling in the background, or hearing the Dora theme song can really turn off the mood...Lol
Dim the lights, or at least try to darken the room a bit, put on something that makes you feel beautiful, which I know you already are ;) and most importantly try to relax and think about your husband/significant other, or what ever calms your mind !
When your thinking about your children, did I turn off the oven, is the dog in the house it can take away from your relaxing experience, which can turn you off from sex !
So again clear the environment of distractions, set the mood, sit back and relax !
Oh taking a warm bubble bath, or shower prior together helps also if you can !
