Anyone have tips on achieving a good orgasm? (Female)

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by haywow

12 months ago

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Been dating my boyfriend for over 2 1/2 years, and I honestly have had a couple orgasms; no joke.

Please give me some advice, because I've researched all I can, and it drives me nuts that every time he 'finishes', and it's an easy orgasm for only him. Ha, so yeah.

Anything with masturbation, or sex, just please be polite! :)

Ladies with any tips---thank you!

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somaru replied 12 months ago:

Tell him that you have to come first. Otherwise you won't let him him come. You don't have to come at the same time. Explore yourself. Explore him too. Be patient. Don't worry. Take it easy. If he does not understand just let him and find another partner.

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rocketTeacher replied 11 months ago:

hitachi magic wand.

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minieminie replied 11 months ago:

Spend some time alone. Once it is easy for you to please yourself, it will be much easier to be pleased with someone else.

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junebaby2000 replied 11 months ago:

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junebaby2000 replied 11 months ago:

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Ariel Jordan replied 11 months ago:

I think you should masturbate a little more and that will lead to better sex. Having the ability to relax and to pleasure yourself is important for mental well-being, for sexual exploration, and for ultimate comfort when actually being with a partner. The more we know about our particular bodies, and what turns us on, off, and everything in between, the better we will be able to work towards reaching higher and higher climaxes. You should try some toys maybe this one http://blissfulgoodies.com/Speeding-Bullets-Armor-Piercing-Purple/sku-ENAI000102?a=artificial_vagina It's really cheap($7) and easy to use.

Another Idea: I recently read this... My boyfriend does this amazing thing where he lays beside me and touches me to get me really wet. When I'm getting close to orgasming for the first time (yes, he makes me *** more than once), he puts himself inside of me, staying on my side. From this angle he can touch me and be inside of me at the same time, which makes me just go crazy. This benefits him as well, as once I've *** the first time I'm extra lubed up, and then we can focus on him. I think this is a great technique you should try out. I found this technique here http://goarticles.com/article/How-to-Satisfy-Your-Girlfriend/6648052/

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alanew replied 10 months ago:

explore, explore, explore, pratice. have fun and relax! dont try forcing it. Also try not having one (holding it back) while being played with. try multipul stimulation locations, patterns, pressure. learn your bodys pleasure points/locations, try having bf watch while you pratice, books, web sites, non traditional bedroom activites. I don't care what anyone says there is no wrong way if you enjoy it.

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