editorNadia
replied about 1 year ago:
Erectile dysfunction is really upsetting for men and often leaves them feeling inadequate, depressed, angry, etc. The fact that you want to have sex with him is great, but it's possible that at the moment, expressing that only makes him feel less able to satisfy you. If you're crying yourself to sleep at night, then you definitely need to find a different solution that can make this better for both of you. Have you tried going to a sex therapist together? Also, have you tried suggesting other ways that he could help satisfy you? If he won't discuss it, that's a problem. Communication is really important for working through issues like ED. You need to find a way to talk about it that makes him feel comfortable. Is he willing to see a therapist with you? Have you tried talking to his doctor together? Just remember that he's likely feeling really bad about himself right now and approach him lovingly with that in mind.
