I recently had a traumatizing sex experience, how do I move past it to be able to please the man I love?

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by carrieblue17

11 months ago

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I was with an older guy that was very experienced and good at what he did. It was great until it started getting forced and I felt like I had no say in what happened. I told him to put a condom on but he lied and said that he didn't have any and continued on with what he wanted to do. Sure I'm somewhat to blame because it takes two to have sex, but I'm scarred by this experience and my ex is surprising me with a visit at the end of the month. How do I get past what happened in order to enjoy the sex I will be having with my Ex?

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alanew replied 10 months ago:

If your not comfortable than you have to say something, sex should be enjoyable and fun for both. if he isn't willing to work with you than it's not the right relationship. it's not eazy sometimes to voice your conserns, voicing them will make you a stronger person.

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bettyliem replied 10 months ago:

You should make sure to really be more assertive.

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wildhoney replied 9 months ago:

Stay away from that pushy guy, be very afraid of men like this, he may become even more sexually abusive towards you, please let that behavior be a warning

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ModeratorB2121 replied 9 months ago:

3 little powerful words:

NO MEANS NO! (:-

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outdoor replied 8 months ago:

Try and remember not all men are bastards...enjoy the sex with the man youre with currently and try and park the painful memories....

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