Bandito replied 9 months ago:
I want you to know you are not alone. When i first lost my virginity i felt alot of pain and discomfort for days after. The biggest thing i can say is yes make sure you are properly lubricated, and breathe that is very important. also take it slow. untill you are comfortable go slow, there is no need to have rough sex until you have established a confort level with your self and your boy friend.
Hope this helped