My boyfriend lived with me for 8 months. Everything was perfect! He was very good to me, I had NO complaints in the relationship at all. We communicated well, sex was great, he was kind and considerate, always doing little things to make me happy, we were active in outside activites , we seemed very compatable, and said he loved me and was never going to leave! Then he took a job out of town (40 miles away). About 2 months into the new job, he came in one day and informed me he had rented a house there and would be moving that weekend! I was shocked! He said it was just better for him, he is diabetic and he said the commute was getting to his health (first time he had complained at all about this). I was very upset, began to ask if there was another woman involved which he denied. I spent the weekend crying and upset and trying to figure out what was going on in his mind and why this was happening, and by the end of the weekend he was mad at me for not being happy for him and even though at first he said he thought he would still be seeing me and this move wasnt anything to do with our relationship, by the end of the weekend he was telling me he just needed his space and that he didnt know if we would still see each other or not! This was a month ago! He eventually called and invited me to come see his new home and see where he works, etc. I went out of curiosity, and now I am seeing him a couple of times a week, but it is when I ask to come see him and we end up having sex and thats about it. Last week he told me his ex wants to work on their relationship now, that they do talk and she comes by to talk, but that there is no way he will get back with her and that they are not having sex! What do I do?? I love this man with all my heart and soul and I just want the relationship that we had back!! Please some one advise me here!! My heart is broken and I am lost without him!
