Jenichael replied 10 months ago:
I am so sorry and my heart goes out to you. But this is only speculation, he does not want to hurt you, but the inevitable is that if he wanted you to be together, you would be living with him. Sounds like he might just be holding on to you, until he can see if something else is going to work out in his favor. I think you need to let him know, that you want to be with him. And that if this is something he is not genuinly feeling, he needs to let you go, so you can move on. By allowing him to do this is demeaning and will make you question your self worth. And honey, you are worth more than just a "go to girl". I know you love him, but LOVE yourself first. If he wants to be with you, and respects you, he will have to make a decision. Or as painful as it may be, move on. He is not the ONE!!! And don't miss the opportunity on the man that is out there. Good Luck, and God Bless.