Is there something wrong with me?

by caligirlkiss07

12 months ago

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I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and we are just now starting to have sex. We only did it twice but both times i did not have an orgasm even tho he "finished" twice. Is there something im not doing right? I have people telling me its natural for women to not have orgasms the first few times of having sex. But i just keep thinking in my mind that i wasnt doing something right..

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  lazydazyrach replied 12 months ago:

  if all your thinking about while doing it is whether or not you're doing something wrong, you will never achieve orgasm. just do what feels right and natural. if he does something you like let him know. Maybe try different things to find out what what really revvs your engines. most of all relax. no one ever has an orgasm the first time, or even the thousandth time :)

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  aquamarine1960 replied 12 months ago:

  No, there's nothing wrong with you...relax and learn to enjoy, and experience this time in your relationship with your boyfriend... express that you're enjoying what your partner is doing....Don't think, just RELAX, and enjoy!

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  haywow replied 12 months ago:

  Haha I just posted my question--it's pretty much the same thing!

  The only thing I have found is to not worry about your flaws---sounds, your body, anything. And to let it 'just happen'. I know it's frustrating, I am right there with you. I've been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years, and nothing has dramatically changed! I feel bad for the guy...

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