I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and love him more than anything. He is the most trusting, dependable, amazing person I have ever met. We have seen each other at the best and worst times of our lives. When we first started dating we very rarely got to see each other alone, hints, the issue of wheteher or not to sleep together hadnt been that huge of a deal, we would have to wait a while anyways. Also we are both virgins nad have only seriously dated each other. But this past year we have had more than enough oppurtunity and have been thinking about it. Not to be lame, but I want it to be special. And after all this time waiting, it should be. We dont want to have to plan it out because that would take away some of the magic, and we dont want it to be random, because that seems to make it more of a physical act rather than a statement of our love together. So I am not sure what to do here. Plan it, be spontaneous, wait?
