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lilies56

almost 3 years ago

i looked at this cross-dresser in high school. i looked at her butt but i was'nt attracted to her im a girl. ive been asked about my sexuality and i dont know it because i dont want to have sex with anyone but i do want to have a relationship. my question is how to renew my reputatation from a pervert to a person who made a mistake.
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    TinkerBelle
    almost 3 years ago
    darling just because you looked does not mean you are a pervert. your sexuality is about who you like' for instance if you are female and like males then your sexual orientation(sexuality) is straight(hetero-sexual) if you're a girl and like guys and git rls then you are bi-sexual if you are female and like other girls then your lesbian(homo-sexual). if you looked but didn't touch and you ewere single then there was no mistake. no matter your orientation you need to surround yourself with positive supportive friends and family whom you can talk to openly anytime.
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    editorNadia
    almost 3 years ago
    First off, I want to second @TinkerBelle's comment that you are not a pervert. I would say that you didn't even make a mistake. Women often look at, fantasize or dream about other women and experiencing any of that doesn't make you a lesbian, or even bisexual, and it certainly doesn't make you a pervert. Your sexuality is something that will develop over time and giving yourself the freedom to explore it is the best way to figure out what's right for you. Women in particular have very fluid sexuality. We're much more likely to have some attraction to other women--physiological or psychological--even if we think of ourselves as straight. It's natural to have complicated feelings. Unfortunately, high schoolers can be really cruel, so if you're being made fun of or disrespected because of this experience, know that it will pass. Intolerance is just immaturity.
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    lilies56
    almost 3 years ago
    thanks editorNadia ive read and agree with you im not a pervert and people still say things and ask me questions about why i did it and i dont why i only do know that i am bi curious about sex and i dont know where i am in that department and i was depressed and paranoid about it but know im much better thankyou.
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    lilies56
    almost 3 years ago
    thankyou tinkerbelle you've given me a light on some sexual orientations and im confident that i'll some day thankyou.
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    fromfornia
    over 2 years ago
    Take care of yourself.
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    lilies56
    over 2 years ago
    what do you mean take care of myself?
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    mloy
    over 2 years ago
    its easy just go on line and you can have what ever tipe of realtiomship you wont be it hard cour or just a talk
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    adam Thompson
    over 1 year ago

    i am looking a single gril can you help me

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    adam Thompson
    over 1 year ago

    can you talk to me plz

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