Too insecure

by Nienkefjansz

12 months ago

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Hello, my name is Nienke.

I am from Holland haha, i'm 17 years old, 5.7 feet and my weight is 135 or something!

I'm so insecure about my weight, i feel fat.. my legs are long but i want them thinner.

I have blond curly hair that falls on my chest, brown eyes. Everyone say that i am pretty, and not fat, just normal, and that people want to have my body. But why am i so insecure about it!?

I look often to Candice swanepoel, the victoria secret model and i want to have her body.

I hope you guys have tips for me to be confident, or maybe loose weight on my legs?

Thanks!!

Nienke

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  somaru replied 12 months ago:

  You've got two options. You can just decide that you are ok as you are or you can just start eating healthier and exercising. There are people who will think you are perfect as you are.  There are people who'll never be satisfied with you because they aren't satisfied with  themselves either. There are people who like fat legs.  There are people who don't mind fat legs as long there is a brain that makes them walk and dance.  There are all kind of people. But you already know  what you have to do. 

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  Vibrant Life replied 6 months ago:

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