Best friend's ex

by kateverdeen

11 months ago

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My bff used to go out with my crush. When she told me they have been going out for like 5 months already, i cried all day. Through lessons in school, at home, in the bathroom... you name it. The thing is i still like him. They broke up like a month ago and my other frinds think he likes me, only he NEVER replies to texts or emails. Before school ended he tallked to me everyday. SHould i try and ask him whats going on? Should i make a move and ask him out?

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  NightSkyBlue replied 11 months ago:

  First of all, talk to the friend that dated him. See if she still has feelings for him, before you make any drastic moves. If he never replys to your texts or emails, maybe he doesn't known its you, or he rarely checks it. Depending on how old you are, I'd say to just wait until school starts again. That way you'll see him everyday, so it won't compromise any sort of relationship. And, you never know. Maybe your feelings will go away over the summer, or he'll ask you out. There is no way of knowing.

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  GHammons18 replied 10 months ago:

  If your bff knew that you had a crush on him, why did she date him in the first place without talking to you about it? Even if she was a bad friend in that way, it is never okay to fight fire with fire. Talk to your bestfriend about you maybe trying to date him. If she is okay with it, go for it! If she isn't, try to talk it out. (Note- a guy is almost never worth losing a friend) I would wait until school started up again to try anything. Maybe things can take off from there! He may not be replying to you because you are the bestfriend of his ex, that is treding on thin ice! If he continues to talk to you at school, maybe you can make something out of it! It's cute when a girl makes a small move, but maybe asking him to be your boyfriend is a little too aggressive. Remember, a guy likes to be in control.

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