bff is jealous of my body!

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by suzie4779

11 months ago

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my bff is always telling me to wear clothes that make me look ugly. and of im wearing something cool she'll tell me to put something else on because we may be seeing a boy or something and she doesn't want the boy to go to me. HELP!

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kateverdeen replied 11 months ago:

I can relate to your friend. She is just feeling uncomfortable with her body compared to you. I don't think it is conciderate of her to tell you to put on different clothes however. I think you should talk to her. She needs confidence. Tell her that every girl has beauty inside and outside. She just wants to feel pretty when you are around because she feels small compared to you.

Hope this helps :)

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misskdollie replied 10 months ago:

First off thats ridiculous! Don't listen to her, she has insecurites within her own self and she trys to tear you down with her so she can feel better. Gurl, wear what YOU want to wear, that is crazy! She is not being a good friend by doing that.... Talk with her and tell her how you feel and ask her why she is acting that way towards you!

Good luck!

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misskdollie replied 10 months ago:

Also, shes probably feeling really sad within herself , talk with her! Tell her shes beautiful and try helping her even feel better by going to the mall trying on clothes, telling her how pretty she looks, even with makeup, do each others makeovers and take pics! :) I agree with the response above as well ^

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soccerlover12 replied 10 months ago:

Your friend obviously has some insercurtites about her body, and low selfesteem. You should talk to her and figure out what is going on and why she feels this way. Also you shouldnt let her tell you to change so she can make herself feel better, what about how YOU feel?!? I think you should have a slumber party and do a spa theme (mani pedis ect.) and talk to her about what is going on. Hope that helped!!

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