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boyfriends dad, and staying over

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by rebeccamartin

over 1 year ago

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My boyfriend doesnt talk about his dad much, i try asking question but seem to go no where. I meet his dad once but not really introduced. His dad offered to drive me home once but i said no his mom already offered and her and me are close plus we talk about a lot. His dad then that day told my boyfriend if i want i could stay the night. I am seventeen and we only been dating 4 months and i only meet is day once and his dad lives and hour away. Should i go i ? and any ideas about how to get him to open up more about his dad?
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    Liberty Anne replied over 1 year ago:
    You definitely should not stay the night with your boyfriend any time soon. You are young young young and you could find yourself regretting these kind of decisions when you're older. Please don't sleep together anytime soon, or you might find yourself in a lot of trouble! As for his dad, I don't know.
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    ahsueu replied over 1 year ago:
    As for the dad, that doesn't sound to good. Your 17? In most cases it's very disrespectful for a young girl to be sleeping at her bf's house. DON'T DO IT! Stay home and get to know the father and your bf needs to be more open. If not, can him. He only wants sex.
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    jeanine123 replied over 1 year ago:
    BE very very careful about the dad. He sounds like he could have a shady past since your bf won't talk about him and dad is inviting you to spend the night. Very inappropriate. Be careful you never know!
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    TequilaPriestes replied over 1 year ago:
    It is best not to pressure - he will probably talk someday, but it's not really crucial to your relationship...however, you could ask if he feels it is OK for his dad to give you a ride, and see if that gives you any clues. I have been with my husband for 14 years. Early on, I asked him about a scar on his chest that looked like he was stabbed. He didn't want to talk about it. I never asked again. He never "opened up." There are certain times that history is history, and certain times that history relates to the future.... think, and pick your battles with care for a long & happy relationship. Don't sweat the small stuff.
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    bettyliem replied over 1 year ago:
    Take care of yourself.
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