Guys never like me.

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by kateverdeen

11 months ago

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I'm 13 and have had plenty of "Crushes" throughout my life so far. As far as i know, NO guys have ever like me. I mean i've had plenty of guy friends, but none have ever shown any affection towards me. I currently am crushing on a guy friend who knows i like him but he only likes me as a friend (not even a close friend). The thing is he used to go out with my best friend and i think he still has feelings for her. He knows how i feel about him but he didn't do anything about it. I'm affraid if i let my feelings for him go i won't be able to find someone who i am attracted to. There are NO cute guys at my school that also have decent personalities. How do i cope?

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HappY Happy replied 11 months ago:

Hey, Kate. First of all, you need to relax. The more you chase something, the further away it goes. You're only thirteen!

Less than 3 years ago, I was in the same space as you and it's not a happy place. As women, we're always trained to judge our self worth by the amount of attention a boy or man gives us. Boys are fickle. Their pea sized brains are far too small to take in the really important things in life. I suggest you make yourself your number one priority and whatever you do, do it for yourself, not with the intention of pleasing someone else. If you love yourself, so will others.

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Allyyy replied 11 months ago:

In middle school and even in high school I think worrying about guys is pointless. They don't know what they want at this age, and really at this age niether do you. I'm a sophomore in high school. And I definitely don't know what I want. My advice to you is to focus on the important things, school, sports, and friends. And if a guy happens along that likes you, then great. Go for it. I learned this my freshman year, and there's a lot less stress. Hope it helps you!!(:

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soccerlover12 replied 11 months ago:

hey kate im 13 too, so hopefully i can relate to your situation. At this age guys dont know what they want. they are hormone crazy and only base girls off what they look like, so give them a couple years to mature and then they will all come flocking for you!! Right now you should focus on your friends cause this is a touph age!!! Hope this helped!

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Christa418 replied 11 months ago:

Guys at 13 have no clue what they should be looking for in a potential girlfriend. What's most important at this stage in your life is your education. There will be plenty of opportunities for dating as you get older, trust me.

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Hannabanana1354 replied about 1 month ago:

I agree with everyone else about how guys dont know what they want or who they want. I too am a 13 year old in the 7th grade. Last year in the 6th grade, a new kid came to my school, and his name was Dominic. Once my best friend and I saw him, we could not stop talking about him non stop. Then over the past few months left of school, the 3 of us became the best of friends. We told each other everything...me and my best friend knew that we had no chance with him. But then, this past October (2013), he finally gets an iPhone 5. Then, all 3 of us exchanged numbers and stuff. Then, a month later, he does something that i thought he would never do, he asked me out. So ever since november, We've been dating. So i guess the whole point of this stupid story, is that, your crush/best guy friend can suprise ya. Like Dominic did with me. So, all i can do, i wish you good luck with your guy.

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