When is it ok....

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by ScEhXiYch

9 months ago

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What age do you think it is appropriote to kiss? to have sex? I really don't know!

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rachelnolt replied 9 months ago:

so meening teens do it today that we think its ok to have sex. i wouldnt say it is. it gets you in proablems you never think about. i think sex should be only for marriage. kissing on the otherhand. 16 or 15. this is just the way i see it:::) also, ask you pearents about.

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SuperPunker999 replied 9 months ago:

Are you going for a small peck on the cheek or full on make out sessions? I mean, a cute little kiss on the lips is nothing, but a snog session should wait. I can't give a set age, but I would say somewhere when you're 16 and you're totally sure you like the guy, and the guy likes you back. Sex should wait. Again, I can't say a set age, but if you're ready before marriage, go ahead. But again, make sure you're totally in love with this guy. Don't make it this drunken/drugged ordeal at your buddies house party. Make sure you're both okay with everything.

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SuperPunker999 replied 9 months ago:

Are you going for a small peck on the cheek or full on make out sessions? I mean, a cute little kiss on the lips is nothing, but a snog session should wait. I can't give a set age, but I would say somewhere when you're 16 and you're totally sure you like the guy, and the guy likes you back. Sex should wait. Again, I can't say a set age, but if you're ready before marriage, go ahead. But again, make sure you're totally in love with this guy. Don't make it this drunken/drugged ordeal at your buddies house party. Make sure you're both okay with everything.

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mshthewhale replied 9 months ago:

when you feel ready to have sex, as long as your choice isnt influenced or trying to please someone even if you dont think you want to, i dont think it matters what age. if you really love someone its fine. and if you want to kiss or be kissed by someone then fine! why wait?

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beautybud replied 9 months ago:

wait till you absolutly sure you want to give it away to the guy, make sure you really care about him.

kissing is for whenever its apprpreate. idk my first kiss was when i was in middle school. i should have waited cuz i think thats a bit early

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Gigglez095 replied 9 months ago:

Ok. When is it ok?

Some people say it comes 'naturally' its not something that is rushed..

A kiss happens when two people share a moment and it also comes 'naturally'

-BUT! You have to know, the consequences of having sex are: Unwanted pregnancy, diseases, infections, ect.

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Huskeret replied 8 months ago:

Kissing would be when you find the guy that you think you're going to marry, even if you're not even close to getting engaged or married. DON'T let the guy kiss you till you also know that HE is thinking about marriage too.Some people find their future spouse when they're 16 and some find it when the're 36 (or older!), but either way, you need to be sure.

Sex really really has to wait till you're married. Not only is it safer and healthier, but it's a lot more enjoyable, rewarding, and fulfilling that way.

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cristalreyes replied 8 months ago:

i think thts up to your parents but in my oppionion i think its ok to kiis a guy/girl when your around 14 but sex is for a marrige

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Kyri replied 8 months ago:

I first kissed when I was fifteen.

I first had sex at 18 but not until I was engaged. I promised myself it would be the right guy that I gave it to. It was actuallly right after he asked me. I would say wait until you know its someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with. He had sex with one other girl and regrets it. He wishes I was his first to, though his values are different. Sex isn't as sacred to him.

I just think that sex is for people that really love eachother and if you get pregnant, make sure its with someone who would want to be the father of the child and your husband.

My cousin is 13 now, she was 12 when she lost her virginity due to peer pressure. Now she sends nude photos to guys and has a new boyfriend that she does all sorts of sexual things with. Where I am going with this is, the younger and more people you have sex with, it will make sex less emotional to you. By the time she is my age (still 18), she will be less valuable. Also, she had to move to a completely new town because her reputation got so bad.

Just be careful and make sure that you really love that person, they really love you and that you want to grow old together :)

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Clo lo replied 8 months ago:

I think you should wait for sex until you're married. It will be worth the wait. Isn't great to know that your husband, the man you will be spending the rest of your life with, is the only one you have ever and will ever have sex with? I am a christian, and this is what we believe in doing. The bible says it's God's law, and I personally think it's a very good law. :) It is a law that has brought true, satisfiying...and potent romance to many christian couples. God truly knows what's best for us, because he MADE us! Now as far as the kissing thing, kissing isn't wrong or sinful. But consider kissing KIND of like foreplay to sex. So you have to be careful and hold back some from that. Some people even hold back kissing altogether ! You don't HAVE to. Here's how I see kissing. Let's say you have a piggie bank. Each time you give a kiss or an act of affection towards someone, you spend a penny. As soon as you get married and make a LIFE commitment to be with man, you crack open that piggie bank. How much do you have left to offer? Are you bankrupt? I hope you take my advice to heart! I'll pray for you!

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Clo lo replied 8 months ago:

I <3 Huskerets reply!! :)

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ANJell replied 19 days ago:

You should really set sex aside until you are married. Don't you want to give it to that one, special guy whom you'll spend the rest of your life with? And do you know what consequences you may have after you do it?

There's no appropriate age for kissing. It will happen at the right moment. Making out though, is quite different.

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