Achieving mind-blowing orgasms is harder than Hollywood likes us to believe, but it isn’t impossible. If you want to get the most out of your sexual experiences and feel the fireworks in bed, try these tips that will help you achieve better and stronger orgasms.
Prolongate Your Foreplay
To reach orgasms easier, you should allow your body to properly prepare for it. Spend more time touching and kissing with your partner before you get to the intercourse. Building up the tension will also make your orgasms stronger.
We often tend to overthink everything during sex, instead of allowing ourselves to relax and be present in the moment. This can ruin your sex drive and make it harder to reach orgasm. Try to avoid distracting thoughts and instead focus on what your body is experiencing.
Try Using Lube
Introduce lubricant to your bedroom and try implementing it into your routine. It can help reduce friction and make the intercourse a more pleasurable experience, which will result in stronger orgasms. You can also experiment in different ways with lube and see what works for you.
Use Your Cycle to Your Favor
Hormones fluctuate during the cycle, which means your sex drive and your clitoris’s sensitivity will fluctuate as well. Try figuring out when your orgasms are the strongest during the cycle. This is usually at the beginning of each cycle. You will probably experience an increased sex drive during ovulation, just make sure you are extra careful.
Explore Through Masturbation
Masturbation is a great way to find out what works for your body. Relax and explore every part of your body. Figure out what turns you on and what feels the best. Experiment with different pressure, lubes, tools, or positions. Masturbation will also help you ease up and feel better about sex. Once you figure out what works for you, communicate with your partner, and guide him.
Stop Thinking About the Orgasm
Constantly thinking about orgasm will make it harder to achieve it. If you want to experience better orgasms, stop focusing on the end goal, and enjoy the journey instead. Feel every kiss and every touch. Allow yourself to experience the joy of having sex without forcing yourself to get to the orgasm. Once you can truly let go and enjoy the experiences, it will be much better once you reach the orgasm.