Stressful situations are a part of everyday life. Like most people, you cope with each situation and move on. But what if you have endured an extremely stressful, in fact, traumatic event that you mentally relive over and over? Is there anything you can do to break the pattern of repetitive thoughts and get on with your life?
Journaling about a traumatic event may help you begin to understand how and why the event happened and what you can do to get over it. What’s more amazing is that it may take only a few days of writing to get you on your way.
The Effects of Traumatic Events
Only you can know if an event has been traumatic for you. It can be a one-time occurrence, such as experiencing the death of a loved one, a car accident, a crime, a natural disaster or other frightening situation. Or it can be ongoing, such as having a serious illness, coping with unemployment, keeping a big secret from others or dealing with an abusive relationship. According to University of Texas at Austin psychology professor James W. Pennebaker, Ph.D., “It’s not traumatic unless the person is continuing to live with it—worrying about it, getting upset about it. It’s still a feature of that person’s everyday life.”
Pennebaker says that it’s natural for any person to be preoccupied by recent highly emotional events. However, when that preoccupation continues for many months or years, it can lead to serious health and behavior problems such as poor sleep patterns, memory loss, cardiovascular disease, decreased immunity, social isolation, overeating and drug and alcohol abuse.
Ways Journaling Helps
So how can journaling help you heal from a traumatic event? Pennebaker and his colleague at the University of Texas at Austin, Psychology Professor and YouBeauty Psychology Advisor Art Markman, Ph.D., describe journaling’s effects:
How to Journal Through a Traumatic Event
Pennebaker says that it’s not really useful to try journaling while you’re in the midst of experiencing a traumatic event. To reap the long-term health benefits that journaling can provide, you’ll need to be in a mental place where you can get some distance on the event in order to reflect on it.
Pennebaker should know. For over 25 years, he has been a leading researcher in the long-term healthful effects of journaling. In his book “Opening Up,” he describes a writing procedure he developed that has proved effective for many people coping with trauma and other kinds of stress. Here’s what he suggests:
A Few Important Disclaimers
While journaling has helped many people deal with trauma and stress, Pennebaker and Markman are quick to caution that it’s not the only way to heal trauma and it isn’t guaranteed to work for everyone.
Journaling is not an easy fix. Like embarking on a new exercise regimen, it’s quite common to feel discomfort as you begin, and you may have to keep at it before you begin to feel the long-term benefits of journaling. But don’t give up.
If you choose to try journaling to relieve traumatic emotional pain—if only for a few days—you just might find that you’ll begin to sleep, work and interact better. You’ll gain a deeper understanding of an event that no longer holds you hostage in your life.
Want To Know More?
To learn more about James Pennebaker’s research and methods, visit his website,or read his book “Opening Up: The Healing Power of Expressing Emotions.”
Jeanette Leardi is an instructor of journaling, memoir-writing, personal mythmaking and storytelling. A longtime freelance writer and editor, her publishing experiences also include staff positions at Newsweek, Life, People, and Condé Nast Traveler magazines, and The Charlotte Observer.
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