Men will be men, sleeping around to spread their seed, while women seek stable relationships. Right? Maybe not! According to a new study, the historic belief that it’s evolutionarily adaptive for men to be more promiscuous than women may be wrong. The researchers replicated the 1948 study of fruit flies that spawned this belief and found that it was significantly flawed.

The upshot? Don’t feel doomed to a relationship style based on your sex. Find the type of relationship that’s right for you! The right partner fit makes for better life and sexual satisfaction…two things that keep you lookin’ young!

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