It’s not unusual to feel like you need to change things up in the bedroom. Maybe you feel like you’re starting to question your sexual orientation, perhaps you’re just bored and want to do some experimentation. No matter what it is, experimentation is natural, and sometimes it’s necessary. If you feel like a change is in your future, here are some ways you can sexually experiment:

Get a third party involved

Threesomes are a great way to experiment. Whether you’re in a relationship and looking to get another partner in the scene, or single and looking for two people to play around with- threesomes can be a fun way to spice things up.


If you don’t know your own body, how is anybody else supposed to? Masturbation can lead you into a whole new world of sexual experiences and can be a new and exciting way to experiment with yourself and with someone else.

Consider who you like

Questioning your sexuality is more common than you would think. It might be a quick thought in your mind, or it might be something you’ve been thinking about for a while- regardless, reconsidering who you are into is a great way to experiment and figure out what you like.

Do something new

Saw something you might be interested in online or in a book? Don’t be terrified to try it out for yourself. You might end up hating it, or you might end up loving it. The only way you’ll be able to tell is if you try it out for yourself.

Keep trying

It might take a few tries before you realize what you do and don’t like. Tried something once and hated it? Maybe give it another shot. There’s no harm in giving things a few tries and figuring out what is up your alley.