Cold feet before your wedding day are not to be ignored! A new UCLA study found that newlywed wives who had doubts about getting married were two-and-a-half times more likely to divorce.

If you’ve got the jitters, try to deduce (possibly with the help of a therapist) whether your concerns stem from wedding stress or a incompatibility with in your future spouse. If not, cheers to many blissful years!

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